having love and softness in your heart is never something to be ashamed of. giving and receiving kindness is what we are here for.
having love and softness in your heart is never something to be ashamed of. giving and receiving kindness is what we are here for.
““Verlorenes Vertrauen ist der Punkt an dem Beziehungen und Menschen kaputt gehen””— (via vermissungs-attacken)
Can we please stop associating being a good person with how much you’re willing to suffer in silence for other people? You can be a kind person and still say “no, I don’t have the time/energy to help you with that.” You can be a kind person and still say “this makes me uncomfortable, please stop.” You can be a kind person and still say “I disagree and here’s why.” You can be kind and still say “I’m not okay with this.” Being kind is about treating people with kindness and respect, not about being the human equivalent of a doormat!
be careful with how much you tolerate. you are teaching them how to treat you
me: *knows exactly what i have to say*
me: *stutters and fucks up a 5 word sentence*
“If you were in a different body, would you have the same personality?”— Hedonist Poet (via liebeficktunsalle)
Someone: *is late*
Me: Were we supposed to meet at this time? Is this really the place we were going to meet up? Is it actually Thursday today? Were we even meeting at Thursday? Do I actually know this person? Do they really exist? Do I exist?
it feels so good to be kind. it’s the warm feeling you get when you tell someone that they look nice today, or that they did a good job, or that their voice sounds lovely, or that the cookies they baked were delicious, or how you always laugh at their jokes. it’s the warm feeling you get when they respond bashfully, or surprised, with that small smile and a thankfulness that shines in their eyes. it feels so good when someone is kind to you. when it feels like the effort you put into yourself is seen and acknowledged and appreciated. it feels so good when you’re able to make someone feel that wonderful. we should always try and encourage each other.
“LOOK AT THE DOG”— me every time there is a dog regardless of the situation (via spockular)
When I get married and we have kids, I want our house to be the good time house..I want our family to be the good time family. I want my kids friends to always want to stay over because they have such a good time there, have long evenings with friends and family just laughing and carrying on, go to sleep with my husband and wake and with our babies snuggled in between us.. I just want the love to be so strong that everyone can feel that energy radiating from my future family..
you know, life doesn’t have to be competitive. you don’t have to get in the very best university; you don’t have to get the highest paying career there is. you don’t need to compare and compete with everyone else in the world. you need to do what’s right for you. you need to relax, take a breath, and say ‘what do i want, for myself, to live as i want to’. and, if that involves high ambitions, then that’s fine. because you chose those ambitions on what you desire as an individual, and not on what is expected in order to succeed. let’s be ourselves this year.